
Erin Tillman ‘The Dating Advice Girl’ has been featured in Elle Magazine, The Chicago Tribune, The Guardian UK, Men’s Health Magazine, on Lifetime Network and more! In Dec 2018, Erin was awarded the Gender Equity Award from the California National Organization for Women (NOW).
Send inquiries to info@TheDatingAdviceGirl.com
Nov 2020
Oct 2020
Sept 2020
Aug 2020
Dating Expert for the month of August on the Girl Boner podcast
July 2020
Supporting your Black partners, friends, and family members…a conversation
June 2020
On the Sex With Emily podcast – Interracial Dating in the time of Black Lives Matter
Q Salt Lake Magazine – Allyship is Sexy
May 2020
On the Sex with Emily podcast – COVID-19, Quarantine & Dating
April 2020
Chicago Tribune – COVID-19 & Dating
Mar 2020
Dating in the CoronaVirus Era – Medium
How To Know Someone is Interested – Blood & Milk
Jan 2020
Such an interesting convo on the Screw The Commute podcast about how Digital Dating has changed how we communicate with each other, how podcasting has evolved, and my professional journey.
Oct 2019
Sept 2019
Featured interview in University of Dayton magazine
Giving dating advice for AARP online
Aug 2019
Giving dating & consent advice on Damona Hoffman’s Dates & Mates podcast
Social mixer sponsored by Dating App HashtagOpen at The Pleasure Chest, West Hollywood
May 2019
Interviewed on the Doctor on Call podcast with Dr. Jane Greer
April 2019
Giving advice for ApartmentTherapy.com
On the red carpet interviewing actors Seth Rogen, Lauren Graham, Wayne Brady, Wendy McClendon-Covey, Kirby Howell-Baptiste, and Keiko Agena at non-profit WriteGirl’s annual charity event.
March 2019
A guest on the Vagesteem podcast talking about dating in 2019, navigating dating apps, black women’s desirability on dating apps, and so much more…
Named me one of the #EducatorsYouShouldFollow on twitter by SheVibe NYC
Named one of the ’14 Relationship Coaches You Should Follow on Twitter’ list’
February 2019
Partnership with the California National Organization For Women for Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month featuring my consent book, The Consent Guidebook.
Featured in Elle Magazine (US) online about the pros and cons of being set up on a #date by friends.
On the Feminist Book Club podcast chatting about the ways we can cultivate a culture rooted in consent, even beyond our romantic relationships.
Pre-Valentine’s Day Vision Board Event
January 2019
Ohayocon Anime & Pop Culture Convention – Columbus, OH



December 2018
Gender Equity Award Winner from The California National Organization for Women for my work in the MeToo movement and consent education


September 2018
Giving advice in the Chicago Tribune




Check out my dating & consent chat on the Lunch With The Finance Bunch podcast talking about how to date in this new era of consent! Watch on YouTube and listen on SoundCloud.
Youtube: https://youtu.be/iGiGJdAnhZc
Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/user-762860259/lwtfb-erin-tillman-the-dating-advice-girl
August 2018
Interview with VoyageLA Magazine

July 2018
July 14/15 – PolyDallas Millenium Conference – Dallas, TX – Consent, Coercion, and Negotiation panel

June 2018
June 20 – The Consent Guidebook signing & discussion at The Center For Sex & Culture – San Francisco, CA
June 2 – Private Event – Los Angeles, CA
May 2018
May 19 – Positive Models For Healthy Sexuality Event – Los Angeles, CA
May 4-6 CatalystCon – Los Angeles, CA – Beautism and Sexuality Panel: How Society’s Representation of Beauty and Image Impact Sexual Self-Expression & The Ins and Outs of Sex Writing: How to Move Past Fear and Flourish Creatively

April 2018

April 11 – East LA College – Los Angeles, CA – MeToo Panel for Sexual Assault Awareness Month
April 8 – ConvergeCon-Sexuality Convention -Vancouver B.C., Canada – Beyond Yes and No Keynote Panel: A Discussion on the Nuance & Cultural Impact of #MeToo in the Age of Consent


April 6 – ClexaCon-LGBT Convention – Las Vegas, NV – Creative Activism Panel

Interview on the Girl Boner podcast with August McLaughlin

Interview on The Dumb Gay Politics Podcast with Julie & Brandy

So excited to be interviewed on the latest episode of the Dumb Gay Politics podcast! I’m talking with hosts Julie & Brandy about my new book The Consent Guidebook and related consent topics! Get ready for a lively discussion! My interview starts around the 40 min mark. Listen here!
Mar 2018
Giving dating advice on Livestrong.com

Feb 2018
Check out my new interview on StashInvest.com where I’m giving advice on when and how new couples should discuss their finances (or lack thereof)!

Feb 2018
Interview in The Guardian UK about dating and sex in the #MeToo era

Jan 2018
Interview in Sexual Health Magazine: The Rise of Online Dating And Hookup Culture

Jan 2018
Interview on The T&A Talk Sex Podcast

There’s a lot of sparring on social media over whether the Aziz Ansari story amounts to “just bad sex” or if it speaks to something more about our relationship to sex in American culture, and how we can educate ourselves to practice true consent. Christina chats with Dating Advice Girl, Erin Tillman, @datingadvicegrl, about the nuances of the encounter, what’s really going on in our culture around objectification and dehumanization, the new definition of consent and a generational disagreement, and what Erin’s ideal version of a date would look like (healthy communication about respective intentions), and the space for each person to decide.
Dec 2017
Interview on Girl Boner Radio w/August McLaughlin

Nov 2017
Interview on DatingAdvice.com
2017 Media Reel
2017 Audio Reel
Aug 2017
The Love Script-Interview About Modern Dating
Jun 2017
Multiamory Podcast-Interview About Polyamorous Dating
Oct 2016
Dating Expert on Buzzfeed’s “Is This Okay?” Segment
Oct 2016
Dating Workshop at Inver Hills Community College
Aug 2016
Top 10 Best Matchmakers in Los Angeles
Aug 2016 (at minute 23:35)
Mar 2016 (at minute 25:22)
Feb 2016
Jan 2016
Erin-Tillman from StartUp DTLA on Vimeo.
Dec 2015
Nov 2015

I’m so excited to be back on The Biggest Problem in the Universe podcast with @maddoxrules @dickmasterson 🙂 On this episode, we discuss bad haircuts, bad bans and the bad, bad people who “convey semiotic violence” in the form of spooning….
Sept 2015

Check me out on ‘The Biggest Problem in the Universe’ podcast! The topic for this episode is Sex and Dating so naturally I was asked to give my two cents. This one is not for the faint of heart but it’s hilarious and thought-provoking. Our 3 problems….Poly-Evangelists, No Quality Singles, and The Female Orgasm. You better believe I had a lot to say about each ‘problem’….
April 2015
Interview with www.GirlsAskGuys.com talking ‘all things dating’ including being clear about dating objectives, red flags, first dates, The One and so much more!

Feb 2015
Named one of the 20 Most Followed Dating Experts on Twitter! Thanks www.YoAdvice.com !!


Feb 2015
Featured on Los Angeles ABC affiliate Channel 7’s news story about her dating advice deal on $5 goods and services website www.Fiverr.com. Interview by ABC7 reporter Ric Romero
Feb 2015
Interview: My thoughts about dating in the workplace

Feb 2015
Giving Valentine’s Day date tips to guys in Men’s Health Magazine


Jan 2015

Facilitating a dating workshop on Episode 3 of Lifetime Network’s docu-soap ‘Big Women: Big Love’ for the women on the show. Watch the full segment here!
Dec 2014
Named one of the 15 Best Twitter Accounts For Dating Advice on Twitter! Thanks www.DateMyPet.com !!


Nov 2013
Check out my take on dating during the holidays in my interview with the Chicago Tribune…

Nov 2013
The Dating Advice Girl on Tuff and Tender on EmpowerMe.tv
In this episode of Tuff and Tender, Ric and Erin answer questions regarding commitment. Whether it’s marriage, family, or friendship, the foundation for a healthy relationship is understanding the commitment being made by both sides.
Oct 2013
The Dating Advice Girl on Tuff and Tender on EmpowerMe.tv
Ric Drasin and chat-host Erin Tillman answers questions from viewers who have trouble getting their foot through the door in the dating world.

Nov 2, 2013
The Dating Advice Girl on KHOW 630 AM The Modern Dater Show
“The Sheik of Cherry Creek” Greg Hollenback and “The Dating Advice Girl” Erin Tillman go at it again with round 2 of “The Dating Experts Collide.” Greg and Erin’s topics include, “the callback”, the rebound”, “how to have the protection talk?”, “when to lose the contraception?”, “Is it ok to sleep with multiple partners at once?” and much more! Great show, tune in! LISTEN HERE

Oct 12, 2013
The Dating Advice Girl on KHOW 630 AM The Modern Dater Show
Two dating experts collide! The Dating Advice Girl, Erin Tillman and Author of “The Dating Guide Book” Joins the Sheik Greg Hollenback on The Modern Dater show to talk about Holiday dating. Is there a difference in dating techniques depending on what season you’re in? Do you buy your new relationship companion holiday gifts, if so what? Who pays when you go out on a date? Is it hard to be a dating expert and date? LISTEN HERE

Jul 16, 2013
The Dating Advice Girl on Real Talk: The Movement
Do you date with a purpose or do you date just to be out for a good time? The Dating Advice Girl and other guests explore the idea of dating for fun vs dating with a goal in mind LISTEN HERE

Jun 15, 2013
The Dating Advice Girl on KCDZ 107.7 FM Joshua Tree, CA
The Dating Advice Girl gives dating advice to new singles and talks about her new book The Dating Guidebook: Tips for Living a Happy and Healthy Single Life Without Losing Yourself in the Dating Process
Jun 13, 2013
In honor of Fathers’ Day, The Dating Advice Girl gives dating advice to single dads

Jun 3, 2013
The Dating Advice Girl on WGN Chicago Radio 720 AM
Late night radio host Bill Leff welcomes Erin Tillman to discuss some dating advice much of which you can find in her book The Dating Guidebook: Tips for Living a Happy and Healthy Single Life Without Losing Yourself in the Dating Process LISTEN HERE

Jun 2, 2013
The Dating Advice Girl on WBHK 98.7 Birmingham, AL
The Dating Advice Girl gives dating advice to new singles and talks about her new book The Dating Guidebook: Tips for Living a Happy and Healthy Single Life Without Losing Yourself in the Dating Process

Jun 2, 2013
The Dating Advice Girl on The Baub Show Los Angeles, CA
The Dating Advice Girl gives dating advice to new singles, talks about her new book The Dating Guidebook: Tips for Living a Happy and Healthy Single Life Without Losing Yourself in the Dating Process, and takes Bob’s co-host Mandy under her wing as she decides to embark on her own dating journey LISTEN HERE
May 2013


The Dating Advice Girl on NBC Affliate WDTN’s ‘Living Dayton’
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o8mFELHwkbY


Jun 2012
The Dating Advice Girl on The Nerdist’s Sex Nerd Sandra Podcast
MUFFIN DATES, TACO DATES, and OFFICIAL DATES! Chivalry isn’t dead, it’s just really confusing. Join Sandra, Dave, Dating Advice Girl Erin Tillman, and dating expert extraordinaire Madison Shepard for a hilarious look at the mating dance including: Prep, During and Follow Up Procedures, Common Courtship Qualms (who pays?), Dating for Sex vs Love, Bookmarking, and why FUN should be the ultimate objective! LISTEN HERE